[Life] How my ideal types changed in times

As a matter of fact, I was listening to “Wherever you will go” of The Calling, one of my favorite songs of all times, it did remind me of how much I loved Alex Band back then. I’m FA but there must be types that I look for. What are they?

Tweens – The blond

(If I could, then I would, I’ll go wherever you will go…)

Representative: Alex Band

Back in 1999-2000, Backstreet Boys, who rose to public prominence as a hot boyband, hit every headline of music news. As a 9x kid, it came as no surprise to me that I got heads over heels for Backstreet Boys, I mean Nick Carter. That sparkling blond hair, stunning blue eyes, innocent smile and… Chipmunk voice (I was a big fan of Chipmunk when I was a kid), how can you ask for more in a man? He got everything a girl ever wanted. That’s why I never judge Bieliebers or Kpop fans for their uncontrollable actions toward their idols because I was once like them. I dreamt of tying the knot with Nick Carter and having babies with him. Never underestimate kids’ imaginations, they are more powerful and dangerous than you think.

Alex Band (The Calling) is much more of a sophisticated case. I met that Nick Carter clone when watching “Wherever you will go”. As a matter of fact, there were some inappropriate scenes that I was too young to watch, but I was still able to capture his face quickly. He resembled some Nick Carter’s features including blond, exceptionally beautiful eyes and bright smile. But his deep voice is something to notice. I could not believe that he had a voice of a heavy smoker (It was actually related to his background somehow). Today, the Nick Carter stereotype died down but I think having a blond boyfriend with a low tone like Alex Band is never a bad idea. When I started writing fiction, one of the foremost things I came up with the male character was his low, deep voice. That’s when I knew Alex Band still had a huge impact on me.

Teen – The humorous

Oh his smirk

Representative: Ron Weasley

My Ron Weasley… How many times that I have to tell you that I fall deeply in love with Ron Weasley? I can never write a 1000-word essay about globalization but 10,000-word analytic essay of Ron Weasley. He is so fun, he is so fine, and he is so nice, sometimes he gets a bit of jealousy towards his best friend, but he will be there if you need him. I still recalled laughing my ass off when Ron Weasley teased Hermione. He is lazy. His grade is low. He copies other’s homework. People may think his brain is full of shit but I do believe that an individual who can make others laugh has high EQ. He knows when and how to make others’ moods go up. Of course, he never fails to make you laugh when you feel ups or downs. Isn’t it an incredible thing to look for in a boyfriend? I want to have a person that I can confide to secrets to and can effortlessly make me laugh. Then, every tension goes away. That’s when you know you do love him a lot.

When I started to be into Ron Weasley, I put less emphasis on a guy’s appearance because there is no way that Ron Weasley is considered handsome (As his biggest fan, I admit that it is true).

Teen – The fatty and chuppy

Only with his picture, you can tell he is a funny guy, right?

Representative: Jack Black

To be frank, Jack Black is not that fat but he is not in a good shape either. Ever since I watched Jack Black’s films, I have been obsessed and started to look at fatty and chuppy guys on streets. I could not tell how I felt exactly but what on my mind was hugging them must have been so comfortable. The Jack Black vibe looks like an adorable Teddy bear that you could bring to your bed and cuddle until you fall asleep. No, to be exact, they are much more than a stuffed toy. I mean softer and much more comfortable. Of course, they can breathe. They are for real. I wish I could be John Mayer and write the song “Your tummy is a wonderland”. Noticeably, as they are chuppy and they love to eat, that means they must be very qualified cooks. I met a guy in university and he knows how to cook very well. If I have a chubby boyfriend, I don’t have to worry about cooking (someone cooks for me). I could hug him all day along, wishing that he would forever keep his chubbiness.

One more thing, as a comedian, Jack Back does have a sense of humour as he makes me roll on floor laughing my ass off in his movie. So, this is a great combination.

20s – The handsome

I have such a huge collection of Yunho photos – it is really hard to choose one

Representative: Uknow Yunho

I have been back to the handsome type ever since I met Uknow Yunho. There is a magic found in that man that makes you unable to take your eyes off him. With his flexible moves and erotic gaze when he performs, you can never doubt his ability in bed. Ow, it is getting a bit off track. Yunho is a super boyfriend who is able to not only make your pants wet (You know it is just a joke!) but also make your parents, even your best friend, take his side due to his diplomatic skills. Yunho, a typical alpha male, is made up by talent, intelligence, sense of humour and attractiveness. He is just too perfect to be true. If you can get married to that type of guy, you must have sacrificed yourself to save the world in the past life.

There are other types that I crushed on during my university life, the intelligent (He must be intelligent enough for the two of us. Provided that we have babies, they must have his gene), the mysterious (I found him sitting alone and smoking his own cigarettes)… As they are not really significant, I did not list them in my list.

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